Adolescence

The adolescent age: 12 to 21 years. There are a lot of hormonal changes during this phase resulting in a lot of physical and emotional changes.

Onset of puberty is during this phase. A child transforms into a man or a woman during puberty. Read more.

The focus is outward and often adolescents are very conscious of what others think of them.

Changes that come with it:

• Making own decisions: Demand of independence, testing of new ideas and trying new trends, peers make a big contribution in your life, sexual attractions.

Limits to be set by self:

Hey guys, you are a young adult already and you are expected to be responsible. There should always be limits to liberty or freedom. Some issues are just beyond acceptance. e.g., drinking and driving, drugs, not going to school. Most others are negotiable and can be done by communicating with parents and others.

Dealing with conflicts:

• Conflicts with others or even with oneself is obvious. Even adults have it. To deal with it consider the following:
• Listening what is being told, you may find it is different than you are thinking
• By relating to others and observation. talking to parents often helps.
• Do not always resist what adults say, try it and see. It may be for your good.
• Allow and work with adults on reaching common goal. They are not always there to create trouble.
• Always talk to your elders about how you feel, they may be supportive once they understand you are matured and you understand what you are saying.

Issues that come:

You are in a discovery phase. You want to know everything. That is great, but why not be safe? Have someone older whom you can trust and confide. Share with him everything.

• Piercing and Tattoo: Think about it before going for it. Ask people who went for it and see the consequences before jumping into it. Read more.
• Sex: There is nothing to feel ashamed about sex or sexual attractions. Talk to your parents. May be they do not know how to start the conversation. They may help you remove all the misinformation and confusion you might have. Know the risks that come with it (such as STD or HIV). You might still chose to have sex. Fine, but know about contraceptives and why it is important. 
• Drugs, alcohol, and smoking: Set clear rules. Do not drive after drinking. Just be a responsible person, you are a young adult already! Read more.

Some signs parents should never ignore:

• Talk of suicide. Even as a joke
• Problems with the Law
• Not going to school
• Sudden change of friends
• Noticeable gain or loss of weight
• Sleep problems
• Depression
• Substance abuse
• Any of these symptoms call for immediate help. Parenting is not easy; no one will laugh at you if you say you are failing. This fear may ruin your child's life.

Compiled by: Indrajit Sinha; Last updated: 08.11.07 © Medhospital Foundation

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